How to Be a Girl in the World

From the critically acclaimed author of the ALA Notable and Charlotte Huck Honor Book Forever, or a Long, Long Time comes a poignant coming-of-age novel about the complicated parts of growing up, finding your voice, and claiming your space. Perfect for fans of Rebecca Stead, Laurel Snyder, or Ali Benjamin!

Lydia hasn’t felt comfortable in her own skin since the boys at her school started commenting on the way she looks in her uniform. Her cousin and friends think she should be flattered, but the boys—and sometimes her mom’s boyfriend, Jeremy—make Lydia uncomfortable and confused. Even more confusing is when Jeremy hovers too close and hugs a little too long.

Then her mom surprises her by buying a dilapidated house in their neighborhood. Lydia hopes to find a little bit of magic in their new home. But just like the adults in her life, and God, and her friends, the magic Lydia deeply believes in eventually loses its power to keep her safe.

And as seventh grade begins, Lydia wonders: Is there a secret to figuring out how to be a girl in the world?

• Navigating Middle School: From unwanted comments about her school uniform to confusing social cues, Lydia’s world is changing fast, and she’s struggling to keep up.
• Family Struggles: Her mom’s new boyfriend, Jeremy, gives hugs that last too long and stands too close, making Lydia feel unsafe in her own home.
• Complicated Friendships: When even her friends don’t understand why she isn’t "flattered" by the attention, Lydia feels more alone than ever.
• Standing Up for Yourself: A poignant and heartfelt story about discovering that the true magic isn’t in an old house, but in finding the power to say "no."